Wednesday, April 25, 2018

Week 18: “Unto One of the Least of These...”

The diversity of opportunities to minister is incredible.  The following are a some of what we did the week of April 16-23rd…… 

Sister Miller continues to support women who are recent widows and went to lunch with her friends.

We visited an HIV orphanage very close to where we live where 25 all positive HIV children have found a home.   LDS charities supports the orphanage in humanitarian projects and food.  There are photos on the walls of a former LDS missionary senior couple and also visitors from UNESCO.  We played games and were shown the additional needs in their physical facility.  They desire projects such as a nursery building and tile for the patio.  We look forward to returning to assist in any appropriate way possible.  We visited with an LDS Humanitarian Indonesian missionary couple from Jakarta who oversee many projects in ministering to selected communities. 



We invited and attended twice 
a very fun and upbeat musical singing performance with many friends and members of our faith . A Canadian family consisting of mother, father and 6 girls performed, who are traveling throughout Indonesia. 

Along with two young Sister Missionaries we brought and played a game, sang, then taught a lesson about strengthening families with a man who also served a mission many years ago but has stopped coming and now lives with his family of 4 children just 30 feet out their front door from a railroad track  right out their front door where trains pass every 20-30 minutes.

Elder Miller participated in four special prayers of comfort to Muslim relatives of members of the LDS church.  Three desired comfort after the loss of a LDS member father who passed away recently. The other desires strength from the debilitating physical changes from a stroke.

We taught piano lessons to a group of 15.  

We visited the home and gallery of a young aspiring University educated artist who is investigating the LDS church and we are helping to teach and fellowship.


We began the process of customizing for people in Indonesia and making it personal a Brigham Young University English foreign language learning teaching program for people in Indonesia and making it personal to begin teaching at the  Indonesian Police academy very soon here in Solo.  This class is being organized with the help of an Indonesian Stake Public Relations person.

We  traveled overnight to Yogyakarta to support a recently baptized young woman who celebrated her 30th birthday whose mother died from cancer and her father had a stroke 3 years ago.   

We ate in the hydrophonic grown foods restaurant of a church member.  

We asked the owner if there had ever been a choking incident because Elder Miller’s handicapped brother chokes quite often.  She then told us a story of how just two weeks ago she thought she was going to die.  She was in the airport alone and choked on a piece of candy and had no idea of what to do or how to solicit help. Luckily the candy melted enough that she began to breath.  She had never heard of the Heimlich Maneuver as we showed her a “you tube” video.  

The last experience is an example of how we find  “how” “what” “why” “where” and “when” to serve and minister to others as Member Leadership Support missionaries.  We will now organize and find an appropriate way for a qualified person to teach families with small children, members and community friends the maneuver. The restaurant owner felt noone talks about choking in Indonesia.  She had never heard of the Heimlich Maneuver and she owns a very large and successful restaurant.  

We come home most evenings exhausted from the depth of ministering within our cities! We love this work.  We miss our children and grandchildren very much but are grateful for this privilege to minister in the Indonesia Jakarta Mission.  

Love Elder and Sister Miller

Tuesday, April 17, 2018

Week 17: Two Heart Strings


This week I must admit we felt our heart strings being tugged in two different directions. Not wanting to be totally absent from the 2018 Shingo Conference in Orlando Florida, two of our daughters, Rebecca and Monica attended and manned the Arches Leadership booth. Monica’s one-year old, Howie, was the perfect mascot. It was great for our daughters to meet so many of my dear friends from over the years and to meet them in the context of the work that I was so privileged to be a part of. One of my daughters commented that she learned much more about her father by discussing with my friends at the conference the ideas presented in my new book “Hearing the Voice of the Shingo Principles” they were introducing to people.

So that was one tug.

The other tug came from an experience we had this week with a young man who is the son of a woman whose husband died a couple of months ago. She has a large family and one of her children, a sixteen year-old boy with Downs Syndrome snuggled up next to my shoulder during the first day of a two day conference being broadcast from Salt Lake City. Each session was two hours long with three sessions the first day and two the second. The conference actually occurred the previous week but it took one week for everything to be translated into Bahasa Indonesia.

Since Sister Miller and because we still “tidak bicara bahasa Indonesia dengan biak” (don’t speak Indonesian very well yet) we were using headphones and listening to the same talks in English. The boy has had difficulty with his ears and his brothers call him “deaf” since birth but he does mumble and must have some partial hearing, somehow. I put my Bose noise-cancelling headset on him, and showed him how to adjust the volume on my desktop. He immediately pushed the dial all the way to full volume and jumped up in his seat with eyes wide and startled. He then buried his head in my chest and started to cry happy and could not stop for five minutes.


He listened to the next six hours of conference with the biggest smile on his face with full volume blasting. Of course it was in English and I knew he didn’t understand a word but when the choir sang he would wave his arms in time with the music as though he were conducting the Mormon Tabernacle Choir. Others around us who believed him to be almost deaf were shocked to see him keeping time with the music and deeply moved. The entire experience was one of the most touching ever in my life. 


I began to wonder how much hearing does this young man actually have? Sister Miller and I made arrangements to take him and his Mother to an audiologist I have gotten to know quite well from repairing my finicky hearing aids. The office agreed to look at him for free and see if they could help.

It only took a minute to put a scope into his ears to see that both of his ear canals were totally blocked with wax, growth, infection and what looked like who knows what but it made us all want to cry. They could not even do a hearing test but readily agreed to refer him to a very good Ear, Nose & Throat specialist who will evaluate what can be done to treat and hopefully remove some of the blockage in his ear canals. Everyone deserves to be able to hear the best they can. I know this from my own experiences with bad hearing. We are all optimistic that this young man’s hearing might be improved.

Lack of money and access to good health care is a serious problem in Indonesia. Often preventable and curable illness goes under diagnosed and untreated leaving many people sick and disabled requiring the permanent care of poor families in small multi-family “rumahs” (homes).

Yes, it is true that from time to time we feel some heart strings tugging for home and grandchildren but when we feel the tugs calling for our help, it is easy to put it aside and are grateful to be able to minister to others. We love the “bangsa Indonesia” (people of Indonesia) and know that they are loved by God in exactly the same way that He knows and loves the people in Utah, California, Illinois or New York. 

This is just a simple example of our endless experiences with deep rewards that come to us as missionaries for the Lord. We are so honored and humbled to serve God and our fellowmen. 






Sunday, April 15, 2018

Week 16: The Truth & Nothing But the Truth

Truths:   about Elder and Sister Miller         

     Truth…living in a tiny 450 square foot apartment. We are never separated.  After 44 years of marriage, some asked can any two people be together every minute of every day?
        Truth… Robert now knows I have seldom bought a razor and the truth why his razor blades are dull 
        Truth… He cooks breakfast every morning and I wash the dishes
        Truth… His job is to  take out the trash and I make the trash. 
        Truth… I wash the shirts;  he irons his shirts
        Truth… We work out together in the gym 5 days a week
        Truth…We are together every minute of every day, pray, read scriptures, study Bahasa Indonesia, cook, eat, plan, teach, drive together, walk, grocery shop, clean, learn, miss our children, love the people, travel, sit by each other, hold hands, write, and worry and laugh and sleep together 
        Truth…Our check list gets longer and more detailed every day as we leave the apartment to help each other remember do you have the key? do you have your wallet? do you have your phone? do  you have your immigration paperwork? do you have your purse, umbrellas, books etc
        Truth…We study the language and then laugh hysterically at how we forget what we just learned before the door closes of the elevator and the Indonesians are asking us questions and we just end up speaking English 
        Truth …we are growing stronger together

Truths:  about Senior Couple Service here in Indonesia.

        Truth…  Last week we spent 3 days at in a Senior Couple Council Meeting with the 7 other  senior couples serving in Indonesia and our Mission President and wife.  We traveled to Yogyakarta and had leadership and training meetings.  We went to Prambanan a Hindu temple, Borobudur one of the world’s largest Buddhist Temples, and the Ramayana Ballet based on an epic Hindu poem that  included a Javanese food buffet.
        Truth…We got to know 8 other senior missionary couples and about their  service
        Truth…Here are some of the inspirational activities and service that is happening throughout the Indonesia Jakarta Mission.  English lessons, piano lessons, Family History four generation projects and documentation, small high density farming training and working with local leaders to gain access to water supplies, Leadership support, Young Single Adult Support, Public Affairs, outreach to widows, temple preparation.  humanitarian efforts , service in a Muslim school,  love towards all people and the young missionaries, health supervision of  missionaries, office coordination, transfers of missionaries, and  immense mission office support

Truths:  from General Conference:

        Truth…  We Participated in a Solemn Assembly. It is not blind faith…we must seek our own witness
        Truth…  We worship Heavenly Father and His son Jesus Christ; The Savior paid an infinite price
        Truth…   Use wisely the time we have
        Truth…  Personal sacrifice drives our actions;  sacrifice for others;  our sacrifice is small compared to the sacrifice of God  
        Truth... Mourn with those that mourn; comfort those that need comfort;   stand as a witness of Jesus Christ. 
        Truth... Be an example of a believer, especially at home 
        Truth…  We have an obligation to family history. 
        Truth... Increase our desire to receive the Holy Ghost.
        Truth... We must  have a forgiving heart, It is required to forgive others
        Truth: It is a blessing to Minister to our friends and neighbors around the world. We are invited to care for one another and seek the best ways to minister like Jesus.

Sunday, April 1, 2018

Week 15: The Missionary Equal to the Message

The challenge from our Mission President is for us to become equal to the message of Jesus Christ.  This is a powerful target for the way we conduct our lives and show our love for the Savior.  It is on our minds everyday.   This message circles all  around our daily life.  How we dress and our appearance, the cleanliness of our homes, the conditions of the bicycles and the vans driven, the lessons we prepare, the hymns we sing, the spirit we bring with us communicating with others.  Our language and behaviors towards others,  the smiles on our faces. The message is  the  restoration of the gospel of Jesus Christ on the earth, to love and serve one another.   There is nothing more important than this message.

We must be equal and  represent ourselves and act with the level of dignity and be an example of reverence in the world. Our message is to invite others to learn and develop faith in Jesus Christ.

The following photos and captions are glimpses of attempting to become equal in our service and daily living to the message and invitation to come unto Jesus Christ.

Active Volcano ðŸŒ‹ 

This young man enters Missionary Training Center on Tuesday ðŸ’™ðŸ’™ðŸ’™
love 

This kind, skilled, Javanese tailor took in the seams of two skirts of mine

This sweet Sister has a new assignment in Semarang

Our service brings joy!
                   Lovely friends at a funeral

Mourn with Those That Mourn

Teaching About Jesus Christ